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Antoinette M. Shanley

September 30, 1934 - June 13, 2022

First women manager for NJ Bell in Orange


Service Date: June 17, 2022

In Lieu of Flowers: Smile Train

Obituaries » Antoinette M. Shanley

Antoinette “Zizzi” M. Shanley passed away on Monday June 13, 2022 at her home. She was 87.

She was born in and raised in South Orange. Antoinette lived in Maplewood before moving to Whippany.

Antoinette was the first women manager for NJ Bell Yellow Pages in Orange for many years.

She is pre deceased by her husband: William who passed away on 11/21/2017; her late brothers: James, Michael, Joseph, and Louis Selitto; and her late sister: Marie Selitto.

Survivors include many nieces and nephews as well as many great, and great-great nieces and nephews. The family would like to thank her caretaker Mariya and her husband Andrew Apostolis who cared for her the last two and a half years.

Relatives and friends are invited to attend her Liturgy of Christian burial 10:00am Friday June 17, 2022 at Our Lady of Mercy Chapel 90 Whippany Road, Whippany. Entombment: Hollywood Memorial Park, Union. Visitation will be on Thursday 6:00pm-8:00pm at the Par-Troy Funeral Home 95 Parsippany Road, Parsippany (973) 887-3235. In lieu of flowers please make donations in her memory to Smile Train