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Lydia M (nee-Soto) Paoli

December 2, 1954 - October 29, 2019



Service Date: November 9, 2019

In Lieu of Flowers: None

Obituaries » Lydia M (nee-Soto) Paoli

Lydia Paoli of Caldwell N.J., went to be home with the Lord on Tuesday October 29, 2019. She was born in Newark N.J. to the parents of
Francisco Soto and Aracely Soto. The family moved to Orange N.J. where she attended Orange High School and graduated in 1972. She continued her studies at
Upsala college in East Orange N.J. She then moved to Virginia Beach and attended Christ Gospel Church where she became the spiritual matriarch of our family, praying and interceding for them daily.

She then met her long time friend Ralph Paoli (Naval Vietnam veteran), they married in 1988 and were together until his passing in
1997. She moved back to Caldwell N.J. and attended Life source Church in West Orange N.J. She was involved with several ministries, ushering, nursing ministry,
Discipleship training, bible study and the women’s group. Lydia loved to cook,read the bible, and loved talking on the phone with her favorite friends.

She is survived by her Brothers, Jose and Orlando Soto, wife Sandy Soto. Sister Aracely Soto, husband Marco Castallanos. Nephews-Jonathan, Michael, David, Kevin,
Alex and kyle. Nieces-Carissa,Tina, Madison.

Visitation for Lydia will be held at Abundant Life Worship Center 43. S. Jefferson Road, Whippany N.J. 07981 on Saturday November 9, 2019 from 10:30am to 11:30am. The Memorial service will start immediately preceding the visitation.The burial will be private. Arrangements are under the direction of the Par-Troy Funeral Home 95 Parsippany Road Parsippany (973) 887-3235